Now, I know I said I would write this tomorrow but…….Loki is impatient this evening it seems.

When people think of Loki, their minds often leap to chaos, fire, and mischief. [ They also think of the wonderful portrayal that Tom Hiddleston has created]. He’s the shapeshifter, the trickster, the god who dances on the edge of order and upheaval, embodying the unpredictable nature of existence itself.

His name is etched into stories of betrayal, punishment, and the coming of Ragnarök, where his infamous role reveals the darker aspects of his character. Yet, within the tumult of his legendary tales, there lies another story—quieter, deeper, and far more powerful—that we often forget amidst the clamor of his chaotic reputation.

This story is not merely about chaos, but also about the unwavering love that springs forth from the depths of his being. It revolves around Sigyn—his wife, his steadfast anchor, and his eternal companion in suffering and shadow, who stands by him even when surrounded by the fury of the gods. Her love offers a glimmer of hope in the darkest hours, showing that beneath the surface of Loki’s audacious antics lies an enduring bond that transcends the turmoil of their fates. Together, they navigate the trials of existence, reminding us that love, even in its most silent form, can wield immense power against the chaos that surrounds them.

🔥 Who is Loki?

In the Norse pantheon, Loki is a complicated figure. He is not Aesir by blood, but a Jötunn, or giant, taken in by Odin as a blood brother or even in some stories as an adopted son. Neither wholly good nor entirely evil, Loki embodies duality. He brings both help and harm to the gods—crafting solutions to their problems while often being the cause of them. He is the mother [ yes mother.. that is a story for another time] of Sleipnir, the eight-legged horse, the father of monstrous children like Fenrir the wolf, Jörmungandr the world serpent, and Hel, the goddess of death. His story is one of transformation and transgression, of pushing boundaries and paying the price.

And yet, despite all the myths of deception and divine anger, Loki is never entirely abandoned by love. Because standing beside him, even in the darkest of his days, is Sigyn, whose unwavering devotion acts as a beacon of hope in his tumultuous existence. While the world may cast him as a villain, she sees beyond the chaos and recognizes the complexity of his spirit. In those moments when despair threatens to engulf him, Sigyn remains steadfast, offering a warmth that counteracts the frigid shadows of betrayal and loneliness. Their bond, forged in the fires of both joy and sorrow, transcends the misunderstandings that plague their lives, reminding them both that even the most fractured souls can find solace in love’s embrace. She endures the trials with him, and together they navigate the intricate dance between light and darkness, forging a connection that refuses to wane in the face of adversity.

🌙 Who is Sigyn?

Sigyn’s name means “Victory-Giver,” and though she is often portrayed in the shadows of myth, her power lies in her stillness, her resilience, and her heart. She is a goddess of fidelity, devotion, and quiet strength. While she may not be a warrior in the traditional sense like Sif or Freya, her spirit is no less mighty. Sigyn embodies a profound and unwavering commitment to love, demonstrating that strength can come in many forms, often overlooked or misunderstood.

Her story is intertwined with that of Loki, the trickster god, which adds layers of complexity to her character. She was once betrothed to another, but instead, she chose Loki—a decision that, in many tellings, led to divine disapproval and scandal. This choice showcases her bravery, as she stood against the expectations of the divine hierarchy to follow her heart. Sigyn’s loyalty is remarkable; despite the chaos and turmoil that surrounds Loki, she remained steadfast by his side, exemplifying her profound dedication.

Together, they bore sons—Vali and Narfi—adding a sense of familial warmth to her narrative. In the face of Loki’s tumultuous nature and his eventual downfall, Sigyn’s love remained unwavering. She loved him not in spite of who he was but because of the entirety of his being, embracing both the light and dark facets of his character. This bond they shared serves as a testament to the depth of her love, revealing that true devotion can withstand the greatest challenges.

As the chaos of Loki’s actions reverberated through the realms, Sigyn built a quiet life, often in the shadows, yet her influence was felt far and wide. Her character reminds us that there is immense power in silence and in the strength of commitment to those we love. Sigyn’s legacy celebrates the quiet victories of love and loyalty that are often overshadowed by more conventional tales of heroism and valor. In this way, she serves as an essential figure within the tapestry of mythology, standing as a beacon of unyielding love amid discord.

🩸 The Binding of Loki

Loki’s eventual downfall came after the tragic death of the beloved god Baldur—Odin’s Favorite Son—which Loki either orchestrated or helped facilitate, depending on the version of the story. The circumstances surrounding Baldur’s demise were invoked by Loki’s unyielding jealousy and cunning nature, showcasing the darker side of his character. This act not only shattered the peace among the gods but also revealed the depth of Loki’s deceit.

Enraged by this betrayal, the gods united in their resolve to punish Loki for the havoc he had wrought. They hunted him tirelessly across realms, employing their power and cunning to track him down. Once captured, Loki was brought before the assembly of gods, who deemed his actions unforgivable.

As a consequence, they bound him deep beneath the earth, where he would remain for eternity, with serpents dripping venom upon him, a fitting punishment for a god who thrived on chaos and mischief. This dark fate underscored the complexities of loyalty, revenge, and the inevitable consequences of one’s actions in the intricate tapestry of Norse mythology.

And Sigyn?
She didn’t leave.

No.

She took a bowl and stood by his side, catching the venom drop by drop. When the bowl filled, she would have to leave briefly to empty it—and in those moments, the venom would fall, and Loki would scream in agony; shaking the very ground we walk on and moving the earth at its core.

But she always returned. Every time. Not as a prisoner.
Not because she had to.
But because love is a choice, and she made hers every day.

💔 A Love Story in the Shadows

Their tale is not one of romance in the traditional sense. It’s not flowery or filled with declarations of joy and bliss. Instead, it’s about commitment during devastation. It’s about how one soul can anchor another when the world turns against them. Sigyn doesn’t try to redeem Loki or change him—she simply sees him, and stays.

There’s something deeply sacred in that.

For those of us who walk with shadow, who know what it means to be misunderstood, cast aside, or labeled too “much”—Loki is a mirror. And for those of us who love people like that, who hold space for their fire and their pain—Sigyn is a guide.

🌌 Why Their Story Matters Today

In spiritual practice, we often talk about balance—the light and the dark, the sun and the moon, the joy and the sorrow. Loki and Sigyn are one of the clearest reflections of that. They show us that love is not just meant for the polished, the perfect, or the peaceful. It’s also meant for the ones who rage, who fall, who fight against the current.

Their bond reminds us that love can thrive in adversity, teaching us that true connection transcends societal norms and expectations. Loki, the trickster god, embodies chaos and unpredictability, challenging traditions and norms without fear. Sigyn, steadfast and loyal, chooses to stand by him even in his most tumultuous times, symbolizing the power of unwavering support.

This dynamic illustrates the multifaceted nature of love—it beckons us to embrace both joy and sorrow, to reconcile our inner conflicts, and to find peace within chaos. Just as the sun cannot exist without the moon, love’s devastation and delight coalesce to create a deeper understanding of our human experience. Their story encourages us to recognize value in our struggles and to hold space for all emotions, revealing that true strength lies in vulnerability and acceptance.

In understanding Loki and Sigyn, we learn to appreciate that life’s messiness plays an integral role in forming profound connections. It challenges us to extend our compassion to those who are often overlooked or misunderstood and to recognize that love can manifest in diverse, unexpected ways, even in the darkest of times. In this way, their bond serves as a reminder that embracing all sides of love and life enriches our spiritual journey, presenting opportunities for growth, healing, and transformation.

• That real devotion doesn’t always look like fairy tales.
• That sometimes, the strongest thing you can do is simply stay.
• That every flame, no matter how wild, can have a hearth to return to.

Even in punishment, even in pain, Loki is not alone. Because Sigyn never left.

And maybe that’s the most powerful magic of all.

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🕯️ Tonight, I light a candle for Sigyn—the silent strength, the sacred stillness, the goddess who reminds us that endurance is not weakness, and love is never wasted.

🔥 And I honor Loki—the fire that reshapes, the chaos that awakens, the divine spark that refuses to be extinguished.

May we all find—or become—the kind of love that kneels in the darkness and waits for the light to return.

Much love and many blessings,
Mrs. B