There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from being the person who always says, “I’ve got it.” Not because you actually have it. Not because you want to carry everything alone. But because somewhere along the way, doing it yourself became safer than depending on anyone else. Hyper-independence is often discussed as a…
Tag: ADHD
The Dopamine Menu: Pacing Joy When Your Nervous System Lives on Hard Mode ✨🧋📚
Your nervous system is not a broken vending machine that forgot how to dispense joy. It is more like an old woodland radio tower during a thunderstorm. Some days the signal comes in crystal clear. Other days every sound arrives too loudly, too quickly, or all at once. For those of us living with Dysautonomia,…
ADHD, Autism, Food Noise, and Learning to Hear a Fullness Cue for the First Time
One of the strangest parts of starting Mounjaro for me was realizing that I had spent most of my life without truly understanding what “full” was supposed to feel like. That sounds dramatic until you realize how differently neurodivergent people can experience body awareness. When you live with ADHD and autism, hunger and fullness cues…
Navigating Family Events as an AudHD Individual
The post details the challenges of attending family events as someone with AudHD, emphasizing the mental preparations and sensory considerations involved. It discusses the importance of consent in physical interactions like hugs and the necessity of self-regulation during overwhelming situations. The writing advocates for understanding and support from loved ones, encouraging patience and recognition of individual needs.
The Struggle to Be Heard: Communication with Autism & ADHD
Living with Autism and ADHD often involves the frustration of feeling unheard and misunderstood, especially in medical settings. Despite efforts to communicate clearly, individuals face skepticism and dismissal from others, including doctors and family. To navigate these challenges, strategies such as breathing techniques, prepared notes, and requesting clarification can empower effective communication and foster deeper connections.
Rewriting the Inner Dialogue: Coming to Terms with an Autism Diagnosis in Adulthood
There are moments in life when everything shifts—but not always in the loud, dramatic way we expect. Sometimes, it happens quietly. Sitting on your couch, laptop open, camera on. You’re wrapped in a blanket, clutching a comfort item without even realizing it, trying to hold your breath steady while your therapist looks at you gently…
Trusting the Pull: How I Found the Perfect Therapist
The author reflects on discovering a new therapist, feeling a deep connection that guided her choice. As a neurodivergent individual recently diagnosed with Autism, she embraces therapy as a healing journey. Through mindfulness, shadow work, art therapy, and cognitive therapy, she seeks holistic healing, personal growth, and self-acceptance, while encouraging others to trust their instincts.
Well… It’s Official. I’m AuDHD.
After discovering I am AuDADHD, I felt a profound relief, as my struggles made sense. This understanding empowered me, allowing me to embrace both challenges and strengths. I grieved my past while celebrating newfound clarity, committing to self-exploration. The journey is ongoing, reminding me to honor my identity and process.
🧁 Introducing: Mrs. B’s R.E.D.
Hello, beautiful souls. 💜 If you’ve followed me for a while, you know that Unconventional Momma is a space rooted in honesty, healing, creativity, and the wild, winding paths we walk as spiritual, neurodivergent, and soul-led beings. Over the years, I’ve shared my journey with chronic illness—my struggles, triumphs, and the lessons learned along the…
Living Out Loud- Understanding ADHD and Autism: My Personal Journey
This post shares a personal reflection on living with neurodivergence, particularly ADHD and possible Autism. The author reveals the complexities of their experiences, including executive dysfunction, sensory sensitivities, and social challenges. Through candid storytelling, they emphasize the importance of community, connection, and understanding, offering a glimpse into their layered reality while advocating for acceptance.
