The author reflects on their journey as a mother amid struggles with undiagnosed autism, ADHD, OCD, and dyslexia. They express regret for perceived shortcomings and a desire to foster compassion and healing within their family. Through self-acceptance and personal growth, they aim to improve relationships and provide emotional space for their children.
Category: Shadow & Sanctuary Work
Empath Burnout: When Feeling Too Much Becomes Too Heavy
Empathy burnout affects individuals, particularly those with hyper empathy, which is heightened sensitivity to others’ emotions. This can lead to emotional exhaustion and disconnection from one’s feelings. It’s crucial for hyper empaths to establish boundaries and practice self-care to mitigate emotional overload, fostering balance while maintaining meaningful connections.
The Struggle to Be Heard: Communication with Autism & ADHD
Living with Autism and ADHD often involves the frustration of feeling unheard and misunderstood, especially in medical settings. Despite efforts to communicate clearly, individuals face skepticism and dismissal from others, including doctors and family. To navigate these challenges, strategies such as breathing techniques, prepared notes, and requesting clarification can empower effective communication and foster deeper connections.
Nothing About My Growth Was Pretty: Long Post
The journey of personal growth is often misrepresented as glamorous, yet it is frequently messy and painful. True healing involves confronting deep-seated traumas, cutting toxic ties, and navigating emotions. This process is filled with breakdowns, vulnerability, and ultimately, resilience, leading to authentic self-discovery and empowerment through embracing discomfort and celebrating progress.
A letter to myself, as a reminder.
The letter reflects on the author’s journey towards understanding their need for control stemming from past vulnerabilities. It emphasizes the importance of embracing uncertainty and finding balance between control and spontaneity. Through self-compassion and spiritual practices, the author learns to navigate emotions, cultivate resilience, and honor their personal growth and authenticity.
🌿 Celebrating the Small Victories
Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, but progress often emerges from small victories. Celebrating these seemingly minor achievements fosters resilience and builds momentum, laying the groundwork for significant milestones. By acknowledging personal wins and reflecting on them, we cultivate positivity and inspiration in our journeys, reinforcing that every step forward matters.
Healing the Inner Child: Finding Tenderness Within the Fire
I have always been at the mercy of my childhood. From the ages of 5 to 12, my world was turned upside down. Trauma and horrors became constants, shaping a childhood that should have been filled with safety, laughter, and love. Those years should have been the season of scraped knees and bedtime stories, but…
🌑 Shadow Work: When Independence Wasn’t a Choice
The content explores the emotional struggles of individuals who had to grow up too quickly, addressing their inner child’s anger and need for validation. It highlights the balance between self-reliance and the desire for support, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging feelings and establishing boundaries to foster healthier relationships and healing.
What to Do When Someone Wounds You (and You’re Neurodivergent)
Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) is an overwhelming emotional reaction to perceived criticism, especially prevalent among those with ADHD. It can lead to intense feelings of shame, anxiety, and avoidance behaviors, complicating interpersonal interactions. Understanding RSD helps individuals navigate their emotions, fostering self-acceptance and resilience through strategies such as therapy, self-validation, and support.
The Hidden Cost of Being the Giver in Relationships
This article explores the emotional challenges faced by givers in one-sided relationships, emphasizing the need for mutual respect and balance. It discusses feelings of exhaustion, resentment, and the importance of self-advocacy. The piece also encourages givers to establish boundaries, prioritize self-care, and recognize their worth in fostering healthy connections.
