There’s a quiet ache that comes with being the one who always reaches first—the one who initiates the touching, the cuddling, and the loving. It feels like an overwhelming weight sitting in your chest, a sensation that grows heavier each day as you extend your heart in hopes of building deeper connections. When those gestures…
Tag: personal-growth
Nothing About My Growth Was Pretty: Long Post
The journey of personal growth is often misrepresented as glamorous, yet it is frequently messy and painful. True healing involves confronting deep-seated traumas, cutting toxic ties, and navigating emotions. This process is filled with breakdowns, vulnerability, and ultimately, resilience, leading to authentic self-discovery and empowerment through embracing discomfort and celebrating progress.
The Art of Detachment.
Detachment is the practice of prioritizing personal well-being while allowing others to take responsibility for their actions. It fosters self-respect, clarity in relationships, and freedom from anxiety by relinquishing control over outcomes. Embracing detachment encourages genuine connections and personal growth, leading to healthier, more fulfilling relationships without unrealistic expectations.
🌙 Mindful Reset: Embracing Light, Shadow & Darkness
The moon symbolizes balance, reminding us to embrace both our light and shadows for wholeness. Self-acceptance involves acknowledging vulnerabilities and celebrating our unique journeys. As we honor all facets of ourselves, we gain deeper self-awareness and compassion. Embracing this balance can lead to transformation and enriched understanding of our existence.
A letter to myself, as a reminder.
The letter reflects on the author’s journey towards understanding their need for control stemming from past vulnerabilities. It emphasizes the importance of embracing uncertainty and finding balance between control and spontaneity. Through self-compassion and spiritual practices, the author learns to navigate emotions, cultivate resilience, and honor their personal growth and authenticity.
🌿 Celebrating the Small Victories
Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, but progress often emerges from small victories. Celebrating these seemingly minor achievements fosters resilience and builds momentum, laying the groundwork for significant milestones. By acknowledging personal wins and reflecting on them, we cultivate positivity and inspiration in our journeys, reinforcing that every step forward matters.
Why It’s So Damn Hard to Stick to Boundaries When You’re Neurodivergent
The post emphasizes the importance of establishing and maintaining boundaries, especially for neurodivergent individuals. It discusses the emotional complexities involved in asserting boundaries with loved ones, highlighting fears of rejection and guilt. Ultimately, it advocates for self-compassion, open communication, and the necessity of prioritizing personal well-being, urging readers to embrace discomfort for growth.
Well… It’s Official. I’m AuDHD.
After discovering I am AuDADHD, I felt a profound relief, as my struggles made sense. This understanding empowered me, allowing me to embrace both challenges and strengths. I grieved my past while celebrating newfound clarity, committing to self-exploration. The journey is ongoing, reminding me to honor my identity and process.
Being Re-Evaluated as an Adult: ADHD, OCD, Dyslexia & the Spectrum
There’s a unique kind of vulnerability that comes with sitting in a quiet room and explaining your entire life to someone with a clipboard. Especially when that life has been filtered through layers of missed diagnoses, misunderstood behaviors, and internalized shame. That’s what it feels like to be re-evaluated as an adult for ADHD, OCD,…
Protecting Your Energy: How Social Safety Is Self-Care
We often think of self-care as bubble baths, journaling, or sipping calming teas—but real self-care also includes protecting your energy and well-being in social situations. It’s about listening to that inner whisper when something feels “off.” It’s trusting your gut even if you can’t logically explain why. Because your intuition is never just noise—it’s your spirit trying to…
