Some days, faith feels easy, almost effortless. Other days, it feels like something you have to reach for with both hands because life has left you tired, disappointed, overwhelmed, or questioning the very things you thought you were certain about. Loyalty can feel much the same way. It can be beautiful and grounding, but when…
Tag: shadow work
I’ve Got It: When Hyper-Independence Becomes Both Armor and AuDHD Survival
There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from being the person who always says, “I’ve got it.” Not because you actually have it. Not because you want to carry everything alone. But because somewhere along the way, doing it yourself became safer than depending on anyone else. Hyper-independence is often discussed as a…
Dear self,
I’m so proud of us. I don’t think I say that enough. I spend so much time thinking about what still hurts, what still needs answers, what my body still can’t do, and what the next appointment, test, medication, or diagnosis might bring that sometimes I forget to turn around and look at the road…
The Porch Light Is Still On: When Loving a Friend Means Stepping Away
There is a quote that has been sitting particularly heavy with me lately: “No one trashes your name better than someone who is afraid you’ll tell people the truth.” Whew. That is a loaded statement. And unfortunately, it’s one I’ve learned the truth of more than once in my life. I’ve never been particularly good…
Veiling in Magic: Ancient Roots, Sacred Thresholds, and Modern Practice
Recently, I began incorporating veiling into my own spiritual practice. Not as a requirement, not as a rule, and certainly not because someone told me I had to. Instead, it became a quiet ritual. A way of stepping from the noise of everyday life into something a little more sacred. For many people, the word…
The Rosy Maple Moth: subtle but still powerful.
The Rosy Maple Moth looks like something painted by a daydreaming goddess with a sweet tooth. With its bubblegum pink legs, buttery yellow wings, and tiny fuzzy body, it barely feels real when you spot one resting near your porch light or curled beside your doorway at night. 🌙🍓✨
Looking Back: A Mother’s Reflection
The author reflects on their journey as a mother amid struggles with undiagnosed autism, ADHD, OCD, and dyslexia. They express regret for perceived shortcomings and a desire to foster compassion and healing within their family. Through self-acceptance and personal growth, they aim to improve relationships and provide emotional space for their children.
Nothing About My Growth Was Pretty: Long Post
The journey of personal growth is often misrepresented as glamorous, yet it is frequently messy and painful. True healing involves confronting deep-seated traumas, cutting toxic ties, and navigating emotions. This process is filled with breakdowns, vulnerability, and ultimately, resilience, leading to authentic self-discovery and empowerment through embracing discomfort and celebrating progress.
🌙 Mindful Reset: Embracing Light, Shadow & Darkness
The moon symbolizes balance, reminding us to embrace both our light and shadows for wholeness. Self-acceptance involves acknowledging vulnerabilities and celebrating our unique journeys. As we honor all facets of ourselves, we gain deeper self-awareness and compassion. Embracing this balance can lead to transformation and enriched understanding of our existence.
A letter to myself, as a reminder.
The letter reflects on the author’s journey towards understanding their need for control stemming from past vulnerabilities. It emphasizes the importance of embracing uncertainty and finding balance between control and spontaneity. Through self-compassion and spiritual practices, the author learns to navigate emotions, cultivate resilience, and honor their personal growth and authenticity.
