Dear self,

I’m so proud of us. I don’t think I say that enough. I spend so much time thinking about what still hurts, what still needs answers, what my body still can’t do, and what the next appointment, test, medication, or diagnosis might bring that sometimes I forget to turn around and look at the road…

The Porch Light Is Still On: When Loving a Friend Means Stepping Away

There is a quote that has been sitting particularly heavy with me lately: “No one trashes your name better than someone who is afraid you’ll tell people the truth.” Whew. That is a loaded statement. And unfortunately, it’s one I’ve learned the truth of more than once in my life. I’ve never been particularly good…

The Rosy Maple Moth: subtle but still powerful.

The Rosy Maple Moth looks like something painted by a daydreaming goddess with a sweet tooth. With its bubblegum pink legs, buttery yellow wings, and tiny fuzzy body, it barely feels real when you spot one resting near your porch light or curled beside your doorway at night. 🌙🍓✨

Looking Back: A Mother’s Reflection

The author reflects on their journey as a mother amid struggles with undiagnosed autism, ADHD, OCD, and dyslexia. They express regret for perceived shortcomings and a desire to foster compassion and healing within their family. Through self-acceptance and personal growth, they aim to improve relationships and provide emotional space for their children.

Nothing About My Growth Was Pretty: Long Post

The journey of personal growth is often misrepresented as glamorous, yet it is frequently messy and painful. True healing involves confronting deep-seated traumas, cutting toxic ties, and navigating emotions. This process is filled with breakdowns, vulnerability, and ultimately, resilience, leading to authentic self-discovery and empowerment through embracing discomfort and celebrating progress.

🌙 Mindful Reset: Embracing Light, Shadow & Darkness

The moon symbolizes balance, reminding us to embrace both our light and shadows for wholeness. Self-acceptance involves acknowledging vulnerabilities and celebrating our unique journeys. As we honor all facets of ourselves, we gain deeper self-awareness and compassion. Embracing this balance can lead to transformation and enriched understanding of our existence.

A letter to myself, as a reminder.

The letter reflects on the author’s journey towards understanding their need for control stemming from past vulnerabilities. It emphasizes the importance of embracing uncertainty and finding balance between control and spontaneity. Through self-compassion and spiritual practices, the author learns to navigate emotions, cultivate resilience, and honor their personal growth and authenticity.

🌑 Shadow Work: When Independence Wasn’t a Choice

The content explores the emotional struggles of individuals who had to grow up too quickly, addressing their inner child’s anger and need for validation. It highlights the balance between self-reliance and the desire for support, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging feelings and establishing boundaries to foster healthier relationships and healing.

Why It’s So Damn Hard to Stick to Boundaries When You’re Neurodivergent

The post emphasizes the importance of establishing and maintaining boundaries, especially for neurodivergent individuals. It discusses the emotional complexities involved in asserting boundaries with loved ones, highlighting fears of rejection and guilt. Ultimately, it advocates for self-compassion, open communication, and the necessity of prioritizing personal well-being, urging readers to embrace discomfort for growth.