I’ve Got It: When Hyper-Independence Becomes Both Armor and AuDHD Survival

There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from being the person who always says, “I’ve got it.” Not because you actually have it. Not because you want to carry everything alone. But because somewhere along the way, doing it yourself became safer than depending on anyone else. Hyper-independence is often discussed as a…

AITA or Is It Just Autism?

I recounts experiences with familial misunderstanding regarding their autism and communication style. Despite attempts to clarify, their insights are often dismissed, revealing a lack of empathy. Navigating these challenges highlights the struggle between authenticity and societal expectations, advocating for a deeper understanding of neurodiversity.

Navigating Family Events as an AudHD Individual

The post details the challenges of attending family events as someone with AudHD, emphasizing the mental preparations and sensory considerations involved. It discusses the importance of consent in physical interactions like hugs and the necessity of self-regulation during overwhelming situations. The writing advocates for understanding and support from loved ones, encouraging patience and recognition of individual needs.