Today, I cried—but not from pain, fear, or frustration. I cried tears of joy. After years of struggle, uncertainty, and appointments that left me feeling more unseen than helped (IYKYK), I finally got a good set of labs back. And let me tell you—it feels like a freaking miracle. It’s amazing how the body and…
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A Rough Start: When Hands Won’t Cooperate
Some mornings just don’t start out the way we hope—and today was one of those mornings. Living with a mix of arthritis, carpal tunnel, and nerve damage means that I never really know how cooperative my hands will be when I wake up. Will I have grip strength today? Will I drop everything I touch? Will my…
A Long Drive for the Right Care: Why Advocating for Yourself Matters
There are days when chronic illness and autoimmune life feel like an endless series of appointments, pills, scans, and dismissive doctors who barely skim your file before deciding who you are. Days when your body screams for answers while the system quietly shrugs, leaving you to navigate a maze of uncertainty and frustration. The waiting rooms become…
An Open Letter to My Children (both of my blood and of my heart)
My dear ones, I want you to hear this loud and clear, and feel it in your soul: I am here for you. Always. We may not always understand each other. We may not always see eye to eye. We may get frustrated, confused, or even downright baffled by one another. And that’s okay. That’s part of…
An open letter to a dear friend.
Dear Bestie, This letter is coming from a place of love—only love. No hate. No judgment. Just love, compassion, understanding, and above all, deep concern and care for you. Because you matter to me—your heart, your healing, your happiness—it allmatters so much more than words can say. You deserve happiness. Not the kind that comes in fragments…
🌪 Tornado Dreams: What They Mean & How to Honor the Storm
A LunaOwl Grimoire Entry from The Unconventional Momma Have you ever jolted awake after dreaming of a massive tornado? Maybe you were running from it, watching it twist across the sky, or even standing still as it swallowed the world around you. Dreams like this tend to stick — not just because of their intensity,…
Finding Myself Again — One Step/Dance at a Time
For the first time in what feels like forever—okay, eight long months, but who’s counting? — I can finally say: I’m starting to feel like me again. Not the “pushing through every moment” me who simply went through the motions of life, weary and weighed down by burdens unseen. Not the “trying to keep it together while everything…
Embracing Self-Care
A Love Letter to the Days You Just… Can’t Hey there, beautiful soul. Let’s start with something that might sound radical in today’s hustle-harder, positive-vibes-only world: It’s okay to have off days! No really. Not in a toxic positivity kind of way, but in the real, messy, pajama-all-day, too-tired-to-even-cry kind of way. Some days are heavy. Some…
March Affirmations: Unlock Your Potential This Month
31 Affirmations for March: A Month of Growth and Renewal March is a time of transition—winter’s chill gives way to spring’s warmth, and new beginnings blossom all around us. It’s the perfect moment to set intentions, embrace personal growth, and welcome abundance into our lives. Affirmations help reframe our mindset, keeping us focused and aligned…
My Journey with Tremfya: 10 lbs Lost and Counting
✨ Unexpected Perk Alert! ✨ Since switching to Tremfya, I’ve lost 10 lbs—not as a side effect, but because of a noticeable reduction in swelling! I’m not quite ready to share all my progress photos yet, but you can see a major difference in my hand. The left photo shows the reduced swelling, while the right was taken back…
