Dear self,

I’m so proud of us. I don’t think I say that enough. I spend so much time thinking about what still hurts, what still needs answers, what my body still can’t do, and what the next appointment, test, medication, or diagnosis might bring that sometimes I forget to turn around and look at the road…

The Porch Light Is Still On: When Loving a Friend Means Stepping Away

There is a quote that has been sitting particularly heavy with me lately: “No one trashes your name better than someone who is afraid you’ll tell people the truth.” Whew. That is a loaded statement. And unfortunately, it’s one I’ve learned the truth of more than once in my life. I’ve never been particularly good…

Empath Burnout: When Feeling Too Much Becomes Too Heavy

Empathy burnout affects individuals, particularly those with hyper empathy, which is heightened sensitivity to others’ emotions. This can lead to emotional exhaustion and disconnection from one’s feelings. It’s crucial for hyper empaths to establish boundaries and practice self-care to mitigate emotional overload, fostering balance while maintaining meaningful connections.

A letter to myself, as a reminder.

The letter reflects on the author’s journey towards understanding their need for control stemming from past vulnerabilities. It emphasizes the importance of embracing uncertainty and finding balance between control and spontaneity. Through self-compassion and spiritual practices, the author learns to navigate emotions, cultivate resilience, and honor their personal growth and authenticity.

🌿 Celebrating the Small Victories

Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, but progress often emerges from small victories. Celebrating these seemingly minor achievements fosters resilience and builds momentum, laying the groundwork for significant milestones. By acknowledging personal wins and reflecting on them, we cultivate positivity and inspiration in our journeys, reinforcing that every step forward matters.

Healing the Inner Child: Finding Tenderness Within the Fire

I have always been at the mercy of my childhood. From the ages of 5 to 12, my world was turned upside down. Trauma and horrors became constants, shaping a childhood that should have been filled with safety, laughter, and love. Those years should have been the season of scraped knees and bedtime stories, but…

🌑 Shadow Work: When Independence Wasn’t a Choice

The content explores the emotional struggles of individuals who had to grow up too quickly, addressing their inner child’s anger and need for validation. It highlights the balance between self-reliance and the desire for support, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging feelings and establishing boundaries to foster healthier relationships and healing.

Why It’s So Damn Hard to Stick to Boundaries When You’re Neurodivergent

The post emphasizes the importance of establishing and maintaining boundaries, especially for neurodivergent individuals. It discusses the emotional complexities involved in asserting boundaries with loved ones, highlighting fears of rejection and guilt. Ultimately, it advocates for self-compassion, open communication, and the necessity of prioritizing personal well-being, urging readers to embrace discomfort for growth.